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Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Division of property

ARTICLES OF LAW By BHAG SINGH



A person may not care much about what happens to his property in the event of his demise, but this may change once he gets married.

WHEN a person gets married, it is a turning point in more ways than one. In most cases, it can involve a change in lifestyle and the way in which things are done. One significant area is property rights. For working couples, each party may have his or her own property or assets. This could be in terms of money, landed property or other security. It may have been inherited or acquired through the person’s own efforts.

After the parties are married, whatever is acquired may be said to have been earned through the joint efforts of both and therefore belongs to them jointly. Of course, it need not be the case that each has contributed equally in financial terms. This is because a contribution can be made in many ways.

However, prior to the marriage, the people closest to each individual would usually be the parents and siblings, though this may not always be the case.

At this stage, an individual who is single may not give much thought to the subject. He or she may be quite happy for the parents or siblings to sort matters out if anything happens. In fact, at a young age, the question of such an event happening would not be given much thought.

However, different matters may have to be considered after an individual gets married. Initially it would be concern for the spouse should anything happen. The need to provide for the children will also be given due attention, when there are additions to the family.

Even though a person may get married, the need to care for parents or siblings may not immediately cease. So how does one ensure a balance between care for the parents and siblings who need help, and the spouse and children?

This is especially so when an individual who is married continues to care for his parents and siblings who may need help. The option to make such choices through the use of a Will on an unqualified basis is only possible in the case of non-Muslims.

In the case of Muslims, the syariah law lays down who the beneficiaries are and in what proportion they are entitled to the inheritance. One-third of the estate can be willed away to non-beneficiaries but the legal beneficiaries cannot have their shares altered.

Back to non-Muslims, in the absence of a Will, a person who dies leaving a wife, children and parents, will see one-quarter go to the parents. In cases where the parents are well-off, the one-quarter that goes to the parents may appear unnecessary, if all that the individual has is required by the immediate family.

In such a case, one would expect the parents to waive their entitlement in favour of their daughter-in-law and grandchildren who may need the money more. However, in some cases the parents may be very old and dependent on their children, that is, the brothers or sisters of the deceased. In such a case, the decision made by the parents may be influenced by their other children who may be eyeing the former’s entitlement.

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Whilst this may appear unfair and unlikely to happen, it is unfortunately a fact of life that relationships can count little when money is involved. Human greed often assumes a more prominent place in the mind of the individual concerned in such a situation. It is thus necessary for the individual, when he gets married and starts his family, to evaluate and balance the various needs.

When the children are not yet in sight, the needs of the wife who is also working, are likely to be less. This situation can allow for a bigger part of the estate to be left to needy parents and siblings or other relatives. However, the parents may pass away and the needs of the siblings may get smaller. Or the needs of his own immediate family may have increased.

The Will then can be changed to meet the children’s needs. A Will is not an inflexible document. Its contents or provisions can be changed depending on the circumstances. A Will is only effective when the testator, that is, the person making the Will, dies.

Thus a testator who makes a Will to give property to his immediate family, can where the circumstances require and warrant, revoke the Will and give everything to charity. If this is done, there is nothing the immediate family can do. The rights of the testator are extensive.

However, the usefulness of a Will lies in the testator being able to provide for the needs of those he cares for. To achieve this purpose, the testator needs to be alert to changes in circumstances so as to make the necessary adjustments. Failure to do so can have the effect of defeating the objectives and intentions of the testator at a material time. If in such circumstances changes are not monitored and acted upon, it may well result in unfairness to those it was intended to help.

Then again, there are those who do not get married or having been married, for one reason or another, are single again and have no children. In the case of such persons, as they grow older, assets are likely to increase.

Such persons may think differently with regard to what happens to their property after their demise. Instead of letting the law take its course, they may well chose whoever they like to pass on the property. This could include people who have been near and dear to them or a charitable cause or a cause that they are passionate about.

Love train rekindles romance!

Love train rekindles romance for 20 senior citizens
By ISABELLE LAI newsdesk@thestar.com.my



KUALA LUMPUR: Twenty senior citizens had a roaring Valentine’s Day in a one-day train ride to Ipoh organised by Keretapi Tanah Melayu Bhd (KTMB).

Dubbed the “Retro Love Coach”, the senior citizens sat in a KTMB event coach that had a stage area, karaoke station and colourful retro seat covers and decorations.

Senior citizen Norsiah Nordin, 58, said the train ride was a romantic way of bringing her husband Ishak Abd Rahman, 61, and her closer.

“We had time to talk and enjoy the view with the leisurely pace of the train. It was like old times,” she said.
Both husband and wife agreed that Valentine’s Day was an expression of love and was not an issue for married couples.

“It’s good for married couples to be loving towards each other in daily life,” said Ishak, adding that he and his wife of 36 years often went travelling together to keep their romance alive.

Amir Rusli, 63, said the secret of a healthy marriage was to have “lots and lots” of patience.

”Don’t fret and squabble over small things. Think long-term,” he said.
Other than the married couples, eight senior ladies who had been friends for over three decades also took the train ride.

Retired widow Minah Abdul Majid, 62, said she and her friends often went on such trips together to have fun.
“Life as a senior citizen is great. We have the freedom to enjoy ourselves with friends that we have known for a lifetime,” she said.

KTMB marketing manager Mohd Noordin Kimi said the Retro Love Coach package was organised for the senior citizens in conjunction with the launch of the company’s 1Malaysia Couples Train package. The new package provides a 25% discount for groups of three couples.

“For example, a Malay couple should find Chinese and Indian friends (also couples) so the six of them can qualify for the package.”

KTMB will be organising a trip for couples to Singapore on May 16. The one-day package costing RM300 aims to attract around 300 couples of all ages and races. Those interested can call him at 019-2291486.f

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Monday, February 14, 2011

Love, actually, is really all around us

MONDAY STARTERS By SOO EWE JIN ewejin@thestar.com.my


WHO is your neighbour? The most obvious answer would be the people living along the same road, to your left, your right, front and back.

You can be blessed with good neighbours who are not only friendly but also look out for your safety and welfare.

Or you could have neighbours from hell who throw rubbish into your garden or scratch your car if it so much as intrudes into one inch of his space. But that is a very restrictive meaning to the word neighbour.

A neighbour, in my opinion, is the person who is placed next to you at any moment in time.

It could be the person on the same bench in the park, or the one waiting in line next to you to board the LRT.
As a cancer survivor, my neighbours are also fellow survivors and their family and friends.

And, what about your neighbours in the workplace? From the security guard to the cleaning lady, from the colleague in the next cubicle to the manager in the room on the same floor, they are not next to you by sheer coincidence.

If we see neighbours in this context, I believe we can then have more opportunities to practise neighbourliness and aspire to love our neighbours as ourselves.

Love, contrary to what the movies tell us, is not about emotion. It is a verb, an action word.

Taken to the extreme, it is possible to love someone without actually liking him, because love makes us want to do something good and right for that person.

For example, if your colleague is looking very sad, you will want to know why, and perhaps do something to help out. Never mind that he or she is a real pain in the office.

At the workplace, many of us have to struggle, on a daily basis, with disagreements over how things are done, or should be done. The problem is that sometimes what is a genuine disagreement on an issue is seen as a personal attack on an individual.

And so the problem remains, and festers to become an even bigger problem.
In the business world, showing love could also mean that integrity must be the basic building block for doing business.

As Ron Ashkenas wrote recently in the Harvard Business Review, “Nobody wants to get involved with a company that lies, cheats, and tricks its customers; nor do people want to work for a company (or a manager) that is dishonest and disingenuous with employees.”

Many Malaysians, whatever our ethnicity, faith or status in life, still lack the understanding on how to disagree without being disagreeable.

Which is why some of the discussions on many current issues, by politicians especially, tend to spiral out of control because we have yet to learn to love one another. There is much wisdom in the saying that we are to hate the sin, but to love the sinner.

Love, therefore, is more than just the celebration of a day, whatever its origin. It is an attitude that helps us to see the needs of others over ourselves.

Love can be expressed in so many ways but I am proud our very own Terima Kasih says it all – asking the other person to “Accept My Love” in thanksgiving.

Deputy executive editor Soo Ewe Jin believes if you forgot to buy that bouquet of roses for your loved one today, but has generally been a loving person the other 364 days of the year, you will surely be forgiven. The headline for today is inspired by one of his favourite movies, Love Actually.